LOCK NY Events
LOCK hosts dozens of events every year. We offer everything from hands-on BDSM classes to relaxed social gatherings that build real community. Whether you’re brand new to kink or deeply experienced, you’ll find education, connection, and belonging here.
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Educational Classes
Since 2020, LOCK has brought in top national and international BDSM educators, including Lee Harrington, The House of O, Nookie Notes, Dan & Dawn, Ebibex & DWL, Carmen Monoxide, and many more.
Our classes cover a wide range of skills and topics:
Rope & bondage
Impact & flogging
Fire & wax play
Electro play
Primal play
Knife & sharps
D/s dynamics & power exchange
Relationship skills, including polyamory
Consent & negotiation (beginner to advanced)
We offer everything from Consent 101 to intensive weekend workshops, often with multiple classes in a single day. Many class days end with an optional evening play party.
Monthly Events
Monthly Events
Socials (Beginner-Friendly)
Our monthly Social is perfect for newcomers. Held in a private room of a public restaurant. Vanilla dress, no play. Just food, conversation, and a low-pressure way to meet the community.
Rope Shares
A relaxed, weeknight space for practicing rope in a learning-centered environment.
Experienced rope tops rotate teaching ties
All skill levels welcome
Everything from single columns to suspensions
Ends with pizza and wings
A great way to build skills and friendships.
Movie Nights
Projector. Big cuddle pile. Too much popcorn. Zero pressure to play. Members vote on the double-feature lineup. Expect a lot of laughter, snacks, and cozy community time.
Open Dungeon Nights
A monthly free-form play party with no class attached. Come to play, watch, socialize, or simply exist in kink-positive space.
Special Events
LOCK hosts unique themed events throughout the year, such as:
Summer members-only BBQ
Costume parties & holiday events
Wrestling FUNdraiser
Black light body painting nights
Seasonal celebrations
Skill showcases and guest educators
We’re always adding something new — our community helps shape the calendar.
Play Parties
LOCK’s 1,800 sq ft dungeon is fully equipped and designed for safe, consensual, and respectful play.
Equipment includes:
3 St. Andrew’s crosses
2 spanking benches
3 suspension rigs + multiple suspension points
Spankmeister bench
Massage tables
CBT chair & stockade
Plus additional toys and stations
Our play parties are lively, welcoming, and community-oriented.
There’s never any pressure to play, and people often hang out in the conversational area to eat, chat, and relax.
Themes are common — members go all out with costumes. Past events have included:
Halloween costume contests and Haunted Walks
Holiday white-elephant parties
The Matrix-themed event
New Year’s Eve sleepovers
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